This month Fabian and I celebrated 3 years of marriage. I started telling bits and pieces of our love story on the blog and will continue where the story left off soon… but for now here are 3 quick lessons we’ve learned over the passed 3 years of marriage.

I was still totally clueless as to what was happening but you know how you can feel energy sometimes? I could feel Fabian behind me but I thought he was just sitting on the bench or table just waiting for instructions from the photographer. I had no idea he was so close to me and he was down on one knee.

Cut to Tuesday when we were supposed to get coffee. At this point I kind of knew it wasn’t a date but when Fabian sent me a text saying, “why don’t we get dinner instead of coffee,” I started asking myself, “oh my word am I going on a date?”

“So you gonna ask me for my number or what?”

That’s the famous line that you could probably say started our love story. Believe it or not but that confident question came from me, Bee. I don’t know who I became in the moment but a burst of confidence came over me and that’s how Fabian ended up with my phone number.

The dress was on and the butterflies were fluttering. I heard a knock at the door and my friend walked in holding a teal box. She said, "Fabian wanted you to have this. And he said you need to wear it." I opened the Kate Spade box and inside was the most delicate gold necklace that said, "Mrs. Right."

ight from the beginning we both wanted to know what we were getting ourselves into and understand that, if this is for the long haul we wanted it to be right. Well, there is one thing we didn't cover. Sickness.